Has anyone ever told you that you talk too much? Well you do. Believe it, you talk too much. That is correct. There is no way to say be quiet except to be blunt and say “shut up.” You may not want to die, but your children want to live regardless of how angry you are or the fact that you feel you’re in the right during an argument. Being dead, and lying right along side the bodies of your children is stupid. When people visit the cemetery it does not matter who was right or who was wrong, the only thing that matters is someone is dead never to be seen again. Go back and read the last few pages of Volume Four Part One and note all the women who were murdered while arguing. If you have to bite down on your tongue, do not argue. We do not care how right you feel. There are situation where you can be literally dead right. You are going to get tired of holding your tongue but just remember you can out smart him. Keep you mouth shut make plans collect money and leave. This can be done in a day. Have a garage sale in anticipation of bad times. No you did not make that much money from the garage sale. You let some of the things go for almost nothing to clear the garage. One thing you must always remember proper preparation prevents poor performance. If you set about make plans during the good times, you will have several alternatives if and when the bad times come. So the first time he hits you, you can leave and never return. Also remember we said the day you get married or take up with any man you should start a saving account unknown to anyone. The savings account is your way out. We do not care if you are starving; drink water, but do not use this money. This money is for the protection of yourself and your children when you have to flee. The author of this book spent years eating peanut butter off a spoon (no bread was available) a happy meal, a $1.00 hamburger or 25 cent bag of Lays Potato Chips to survive. You can also. Once you make up your mind to survive you will be surprise what you can do. One woman left home with just her child and a car. She lucked up on a job at Baker’s Square. She worked as a waitress then finally got to be a manager. Her child played underneath the counter while she worked. By the time she got to be manager she was rock hard. She worked long hours. She dug her heels in. She and her son were going to survive no matter what. God gave your survival skills use them. It is better to live and proudly face yourself in the mirror as a survivor than to argue and leave your children motherless.
If You Want to Live
You cannot hear and your senses will not work when you have your mouth open.
Who told you that the proper procedure for seeking a divorce is to tell your husband or your boyfriend you are leaving? Why do you have to talk? Where in the Bible does it say that you have to tell him you are leaving? Where in family law does it say you have to tell your husband you are leaving? Emily Post is dead and we are in the 21st century. Proper procedures apply to etiquette and to business, not marriage and survival. Man is the most dangerous animal on this planet and if you want to live to be old and gray, you better treat man like he is the most dangerous animal on this planet. You are never to mouth the words “I’m leaving.” Do not use an ultimatum as a threat. He knows you do not mean it. You have gone back on your word in the past so why not now? He knows you lie. He knows the first time you said you would leave him you went back on your word.
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